HAVE I MADE IT LARGE................

Have I made it large………..

When was the last time you sat with your old buddies and played Antakshri and flowed you emotions out?

When was the last time you sat with your family  and enjoyed the stress relieving chat ?

When was the last time you actually went out for a vacation with out your cell phones?

When was the last time you had that unhygienic street food which you used to have when didn’t have enough money in your pocket?

Probablly the answer would come “I DON’T REMEMBER”…….

These are more questions and the list goes on and on…… there used to be little little things which used to make us happy.

Have we forgotten those things ????????

In this jungle race of survival of the fittest we have actually formatted our old memory devices which restored the data of little things which used to make us happy.

Happiness doesn’t used to come from big things, it used to come from silly acts, fun pranks and those polling in of last saved coins to eat something out. 

We work morning till evening like donkeys, we run here and there like horse, we quarrel on each other like dogs and many other animal attributes. We have actually become an animal in this race to earn money…..

But the question which is running in my mind is HAVE I MADE IT LARGE…………….. after all this!!!!

KOSHISH KARNE WALON KI HAAR NAHIN HOTI.....

Was feeling a little low on morale today, with all the usual nuances of life, end up asking the inevitable question i.e. why do i do all this?


Surely there’s more to life than just doing all this routine crap  Or live it just for the sake of doing it ??

So i ended up remembering a poem. It is considered one of the most inspirational poems ever and has been authored by HariVansh Rai Bachchan

Here it is:-

Lehron se Darkar nauka par nahin hoti,

koshish karne walon ki haar nahin hoti

Nanhi cheenti jab daana lekar chalti hai,

chadhti deewaron par, sau bar phisalti hai.

Man ka vishwas ragon mein saahas bharta hai,

chadhkar girna, girkar chadhna na akharta hai.

Akhir uski mehnat bekar nahin hoti,

koshish karne walon ki haar nahin hoti.

Dubkiyan sindhu mein gotakhor lagata hai,

ja ja kar khali haath lautkar aata hai

Milte nahi sahaj hi moti gehre paani mein,

badhta dugna utsah isi hairani mein.

Muthi uski khali har bar nahin hoti,

koshish karne walon ki haar nahi hoti.

Asaflta ek chunauti hai, ise sweekar karo,

kya kami reh gayi, dekho aur sudhar karo.

Jab tak na safal ho, neend chain ko tyago tum,

Sangharsh ka maidan chhodkar mat bhago tum.

Kuch kiye bina hi jai jaikar nahin hoti,

koshish karne walon ki haar nahin hoti.

– Harivansh Rai Bacchan

EMPTINESS ( KHUSHI KI TALASH MEIN……)

EMPTINESS ( KHUSHI KI TALASH MEIN……)

TANHA IS ZINDAGI KE SAFAR MEIN HUM CHALE JA RAHE HAIN; KUCH KHABAR NAHI HAIN KYA KAR RAHE HAIN.

ZINDAGI KI KHUSHI KI TALASH MEIN HUM YUHE BHATKE JA RAHE HAIN….KYA PATA KAB KIS MOOD PAR KUSHI MIL JAYEN.

PAR KYA KHUSHI ITNI MUSHKILO SE MILTE HAIN……

AAJ LAGTA HAIN KHUSHI KISSE BADI CHEES SE NAHI MILTE YEH TOH CHOTE CHOTE CHEESO SE MILTE HAIN……..

WHO KEHTE HAIN NA……

KHULE ASMAAN MEIN PANCHI KI TARAH UDAH RAHE HO; AUR GUNGUNA RAHE HO TUM TOH KHUSH HO…….

PED SE TUTE HUA PATTE KI TARAH HAWA MEIN LEHRA RAHE HO TOH KHUSH HO TUM…….

LEHRO KI TARAH UCHAL KAR KHEL RAHE HO TOH KHUSH HO TUM……

HAPPINESS DOES NOT COME WITH BIG THINGS IT ALL ABOUT SMALL THINGS YOU DO WHICH BRING CHANGES TO YOUR LIFE.

GOD BLESS STAY HAPPY

ELEVEN HINTS OF LIFE !!!!!!!

Some things are meant to be treasured these 11 hints of life are one of those, I was going through these lines felt like these are one to be restored over the blog.

"Eleven Hints for Life"

1. It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return.
But what is more painful is to love someone and never
find the courage to let that person know how you feel.

2. A sad thing in life is when you meet someone who
means a lot to you, only to find out in the end that it was
never meant to be and you just have to let go.

3. The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a
porch swing with, never say a word, and then walk away
feeling like it was the best conversation you've ever had.

4. It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose
it, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been
missing until it arrives.

5. It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an
hour to like someone, and a day to love someone-but it
takes a lifetime to forget someone.

6. Don't go for looks, they can deceive. Don't go for wealth,
even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you
smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day
seem bright.

7. Dream what you want to dream, go where you want to go,
be what you want to be. Because you have only one life and
one chance to do all the things you want to do.

8. Always put yourself in the other's shoes. If you feel that it
hurts you, it probably hurts the person too.

9. A careless word may kindle strife. A cruel word may wreck
a life. A timely word may level stress. But a loving word may
heal and bless.

10. The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best
of everything they just make the most of everything that comes
along their way.

11. Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss, ends with
a tear. When you were born, you were crying and everyone
around you was smiling. Live your life so that when you die,
you're the one smiling and everyone around you is crying.

WHO WILL CRY WHEN YOU DIE????????

When we were born at the tine of our birth we cry and other rejoice. But the biggest question lies in life who will cry when you will rejoice the last moment of your life.

“The tragedy of life is not death but what we let die inside us while we live”

Today in pursuit of happiness in the rat race of life we have forgotten the real happiness of life, Money is some thing we are running for and we all think that’s the penultimate happiness in life. Alas we are all here for some unique purpose, some noble objective that will allow us to manifest our highest human potential while we at the same time add value to the lives around us.

Likewise a great saying:

“Happiness is not about how happy you are but its about how happy others can be because of you”

Be the change you wish to see most in your world an ones you do your life changes.

I always thought life is gonna be like this sadist, rude, mean and asking for something or the other, but you never know what plans god has crafted for you. No wonder suddenly a change starts again through some one in your life as there are no great acts in life, there are small acts done with great love. Yes that’s your attitude, compassion, your special thing for which you are here a special meaning a change to happen.

Like wise said who will cry when you die, its all your acts in life that’s matter in life.

“Time decide whom you meet in life, your heart decides whom you want in life your behaviour decide who will saty in your life”